Is a Swinger Lifestyle really for You?

What is the Swinging Lifestyle?

This page contains some tips and advice to help you decided whether the Swinger Lifestyle in general and our parties in particular, are for you. But please consider; there is no better way to find out than by cumming along to an adult party.
We always welcome you, even if you decide it isn't for you. No one will pounce on you or try to persuade you to do anything you don't feel ready to do.

Swinging can be defined as: recreational social sex

Usually this refers to male / female couples meeting and engaging in sexual liaisons with other couples. Such couples are commonly referred to as Swingers
Sometimes the definition of swinging and swingers encompasses more than swinger couple relationships. For some, the definition of swinging can include threesome liaisons, where a single and a couple form a sexual relationship.

Swinger Lifestyle and Swinger Parties

• Swingers usually meet at a swinger party or by making contact with one another via contact-ads found on adult contacts web-sites
• Even though the number of people enjoying a swinger lifestyle is probably much higher than it has ever been, the proportion of swingers in the general population is still very small. In Britain this is estimated to be less than a half of a percent (i.e. one person in two hundred).
  This tends to cause those who enjoy swinger lifestyles to think of themselves as a non-conformist and sometimes persecuted group.
• In reality, swingers have very little in common with one another apart from their enthusiasm for a swinger lifestyle. Traditionally and certainly in most media portrayals, swinging is viewed as a middle-class preoccupation but today there is little truth left in this stereotype. Instead, swingers are from as broad a range of social classes and backgrounds as the population at large.
• Trying to find a common interest amongst them (other than swinging) is just as difficult. They exhibit the same conflicting range of tastes in music, hobbies, sport and politics as you would expect any group of people chosen at random to.
  If there is one thing that swingers do share in common, it is their distaste for doctrinaire moralising and for those who would impose their beliefs upon others.
• Whilst backgrounds and interests are completely varied, there is more of a commonality with regards to the ages of swingers. It is unusual to find many that are under 25 and by far the most common age group ranges from mid 30s to mid 40s. It is not at all uncommon to find swingers who are in their 50s however and you will sometimes meet those who are over 60.
• Physical looks and body sizes are again, broadly the same as any random selection of society. Although, as you might expect, there is perhaps a slightly higher proportion of figure conscious, slimmer female amongst the swinger population.
  Again for obvious reasons, swingers are much more likely to have shave their body hair and have genital piercings than is the case with people from non-swinging society.
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